A light bulb moment

We went to Chadron over the weekend and it was great to see lots of people that we haven't seen in a few years. There were a few people we missed, but we hope to catch them next time. After church on Sunday, Emery was telling me about this cool treasure chest they have during sharing time. He said that sometimes the kids get to pick something out of the treasure chest. He was sad that he didn't get to see what was in it. He started to cry and as I was listening, my heart went out to him, and I started to cry too. I felt bad that I couldn't fix it for him or make him understand. While I was in the middle of this, my friend Millie came to say goodbye. She asked what was wrong, and I tried to explain, feeling a bit foolish at myself for being so upset. We said goodbye, and Emery was appeased by Granny Bev and some animal cookies. I didn't think anything more of it until today, when I got this e-mail from Millie.

I just wanted you to know that I really learned something about Christlike parenting from you on Sunday. When you first explained why you were sad,my first reaction was "good grief - buck up already." But as we drove home and I thought more about it, I was so touched by your compassion for Emery, for your empathy and concern for his happiness. I was reminded that our Savior suffered for all of our pains and sadness and feels heartache when we do. What an example you are to me of following His example in raising your children. I pray I can develop those skills and become more like Him. Thank you.

I'm so glad Millie shared her thoughts with me, because she taught me something. Yes, I have empathy for my kids and am concerned about their happiness, but I never would have seen the parallel about how the Savior feels that way for us. It was truly a light bulb moment! Thanks, Millie!!!